The Queen's happy corner

"The Queen's Happy Corner" is a delightful blog that radiates positivity and joy. It's a virtual space where readers can find inspiration, uplifting stories, and a touch of royal elegance. . Whether you're a fan of the monarchy or simply seeking a dose of happiness, "The Queen's Happy Corner" invites you to sip metaphorical tea and revel in the delightful moments that make life truly regal. 🌟👑 Feel free to explore and immerse yourself in the warmth of this delightful online haven! 🌷

A Year of struggling

My Year of Struggle: A Journey of Resilience and Growth

Life is a journey filled with ups and downs, and this year was no exception. It was a year of struggle, but also a year of resilience and growth.

The Challenges

The year started off on a rocky note. I faced numerous challenges that tested my strength and resolve. From personal issues to professional hurdles, each day felt like a battle. There were times when I felt overwhelmed, unsure of how to navigate the stormy seas of life.

The Struggle

The struggle was real and intense. There were days when I felt like giving up, when the weight of the world seemed too heavy to bear. But each time I fell, I picked myself up and dusted myself off. I reminded myself that it’s okay to struggle, it’s okay to not have all the answers. After all, it’s through struggle that we grow.

The Growth

And grow I did. Each challenge, each struggle, each setback was an opportunity for growth. I learned to be patient with myself, to treat myself with kindness and compassion. I learned to celebrate small victories, to appreciate the journey as much as the destination.

The Resilience

Through it all, I discovered a strength I didn’t know I had. I found resilience in the face of adversity. I learned that I am capable of more than I ever imagined. And most importantly, I learned that no matter how hard life gets, I have the power to persevere.

Looking Forward

As the year comes to a close, I look back not with regret, but with gratitude. Gratitude for the lessons learned, for the growth experienced, and for the resilience discovered. I am proud of how far I’ve come, and I am excited for what the future holds.

This year was a year of struggle, but it was also a year of resilience and growth. And for that, I am grateful.

Remember, it’s okay to struggle. It’s okay to fall. What matters is that we get back up, dust ourselves off, and keep moving forward. Because it’s through struggle that we find our strength, our resilience, and our growth.

Here’s to a new year filled with possibilities, growth, and resilience. 🥂

#myhappycorner

Happy New Month

Hello December! 🎄 As we step into the final month of the year, let’s take a moment to reflect on the journey we’ve had so far. It’s been a year of ups and downs, of joy and sorrow, of victories and lessons. But through it all, we’ve grown, we’ve learned, and we’ve become stronger.

December is a time of celebration, a time to rejoice in the spirit of the holiday season. It’s a time to spread love and kindness, to give and receive, to cherish our loved ones, and to be grateful for all that we have.

As we bid farewell to November and welcome December, let’s make a promise to end the year on a high note. Let’s fill this month with positivity, hope, and happiness. Let’s make every day count and create beautiful memories that will last a lifetime.

Here’s to a magical December and a fantastic end to the year! 🥂🎉

Heros of today

Once upon a time, in the bustling city of Cape Town, there lived three brothers: Aiden, Liam, and Noah. They were ordinary boys with extraordinary hearts, always ready to lend a helping hand to anyone in need.

Aiden, the eldest, was a brilliant inventor. He used his skills to create innovative solutions for the city’s problems. From a machine that cleaned the city’s canals, to a device that helped control traffic during rush hours, Aiden’s inventions made life easier for everyone.

Liam, the middle brother, was a fearless firefighter. With his courage and quick thinking, he saved countless lives from the raging fires that occasionally threatened the city. His bravery and dedication earned him the respect and admiration of the entire city.

Noah, the youngest, was a talented doctor. Despite his young age, he was known for his exceptional skills and the countless lives he saved. His kindness and compassion made him a beloved figure in the community.

Together, the three brothers became the heroes of their city. They showed everyone that heroism comes in many forms and that anyone can make a difference in their own way. Their story continues to inspire the people of Cape Town, reminding them that they too can be heroes in their own right.#queen's corner

Complicated family members

Caring for a family member can be a rewarding experience, but it can also be challenging, particularly when dealing with difficult family dynamics. Here are some common issues that carers might face and some suggestions on how to handle them:

1. Lack of Understanding or Appreciation Some family members might not understand the extent of the care you’re providing and the sacrifices you’re making. This can lead to feelings of resentment and isolation. It’s important to communicate openly about your role as a carer and the challenges you face.

2. Disagreements Over Care Decisions Family members might have different opinions about the best course of care for your loved one. These disagreements can create tension and conflict. Try to involve everyone in care decisions and consider seeking advice from a healthcare professional if you can’t reach a consensus.

3. Unequal Distribution of Responsibilities Often, one family member ends up shouldering most of the care responsibilities, which can lead to burnout. It’s important to delegate tasks and share responsibilities among all family members.

4. Financial Strain Caring for a loved one can be financially challenging, and disagreements over money can add to the stress. Be open about financial issues and consider seeking advice from a financial planner or social worker.

5. Balancing Personal Life and Caregiving Carers often struggle to balance their personal life, work, and caregiving responsibilities. It’s crucial to take time for self-care and seek support when needed.

Remember, it’s okay to ask for help. Consider reaching out to support groups, social services, or a mental health professional if you’re feeling overwhelmed. It’s important to take care of yourself so you can continue to care for your loved one.

Difficult people at workplaces

Workplaces are often a melting pot of different personalities, backgrounds, and work styles. This diversity can lead to a dynamic and innovative work environment, but it can also result in clashes and conflicts. Here are some common types of difficult people you might encounter in the workplace:

The Negative Nancy: This person always sees the glass as half empty. They tend to focus on problems rather than solutions and can bring down the morale of the team.
The Office Gossip: This individual thrives on rumors and hearsay. They can create a toxic environment by spreading misinformation and causing unnecessary drama.
The Know-It-All: This person believes they have all the answers and often dismisses the ideas and opinions of others. They can stifle creativity and make others feel undervalued.
The Micromanager: This person needs to have control over every detail and struggles to delegate tasks. They can cause frustration and stifle the growth and autonomy of their team members.
The Unreliable One: This person consistently misses deadlines or fails to fulfill their responsibilities. This can lead to increased workload for others and can disrupt the flow of work.
The Bully: This person uses intimidation or aggressive behavior to assert dominance. They can create a hostile work environment and negatively impact the mental health of their colleagues.

Dealing with difficult people at work can be challenging, but it’s important to remember that everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses. Open communication, empathy, and understanding can go a long way in resolving conflicts and creating a positive work environment. It’s also crucial to have effective management and HR policies in place to address these issues when they arise. Remember, everyone deserves to feel respected and valued at work.

#Peace

Sleeping cat

A sleeping cat is a sight to behold

A bundle of fur with a heart of gold

He dreams of mice and birds and fish

And all the things that he would wish

He purrs and snuggles in his bed

A pillow of paws beneath his head

He is the king of his domain

But for now he sleeps, without a care or pain

Poverty

In the streets, the children play,

With tattered clothes and feet of clay.

Their laughter echoes, pure and bright,

Despite the hardships of their plight.

The weight of poverty bears down,

On those who struggle in this town.

But hope remains, a flickering flame,

A chance for change, a brighter aim.

For though the road is long and tough,

The human spirit's strong enough.

To rise above, to overcome,

And build a future for everyone.

#MyHappyCorner

What i love to do in my free time

Okay, I'll change it. How about this:

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**The Joy of Creating**

I loved to create things with her hands. Ever since she was a little girl, I had been fascinated by the art of crochet and knitting. I learned from watching YouTube videos, where I found tutorials and tips from experts and enthusiasts. I enjoyed the feeling of the soft wool sliding through her fingers, the rhythmic sound of the stitches, and the satisfaction of seeing her work come to life.

I also loved to explore other forms of handcraft, such as embroidery, origami, pottery, and painting. I liked to experiment with different colors, textures, and shapes. I found inspiration in nature, books, music, and people. I always had a project in mind, whether it was a gift for a friend, a decoration for her home, or a personal expression of her mood.

I felt happy when I was creating something. It was my way of relaxing, escaping, and expressing myself.I felt a connection with the materials, the tools, and the process. I felt a sense of accomplishment when i finished something. I felt proud when I shared her creations with others.

I believed that everyone had a creative spark inside them. I wanted to inspire others to discover their own passions and talents. I wanted to show them the joy of creating something with their own hands.

Peace

A hero

Max was an ordinary teenager who loved video games and comics. He always dreamed of having superpowers and saving the world from evil. One day, he found a mysterious device in his basement that looked like a wristwatch. He put it on and pressed a button. Suddenly, he felt a surge of energy and saw a hologram of a man appear in front of him.

"Greetings, Max. I am Zee, your personal assistant. This device is called the Zee-Zee, and it grants you access to a variety of superpowers. You can choose any power you want from the menu and activate it by saying 'Zee-Zee'. However, you must use your powers wisely and responsibly, as there are consequences for abusing them. You are the chosen one, Max. The fate of the world depends on you."

Max was stunned and excited. He couldn't believe his luck. He decided to test out his new powers and see what he could do. He scrolled through the menu and saw options like flight, invisibility, telekinesis, super strength, super speed, and more. He chose flight and said "Zee-Zee". He felt himself levitating off the ground and soaring into the sky. He laughed with joy and flew around the city, feeling free and powerful.

He soon realized that he was not alone in the sky. He saw a group of flying robots that looked like giant insects. They were shooting lasers at buildings and people, causing chaos and destruction. Max recognized them as the minions of Dr. Doom, a notorious villain who wanted to take over the world. Max knew he had to stop them. He switched to super strength and flew towards them. He punched and kicked them with ease, smashing them to pieces. He felt like a hero.

However, he also attracted the attention of Dr. Doom himself, who was watching from his secret lair. He saw Max on his monitor and recognized the Zee-Zee device on his wrist. He realized that Max had found his prototype that he had lost years ago. He was furious and decided to get it back. He activated his own Zee-Zee device and flew out of his lair. He confronted Max in the air and said "Give me back my Zee-Zee device, you little brat! It belongs to me!"

Max refused and said "No way! You're evil and you don't deserve it! I'm going to use it to stop you and save the world!" They engaged in a fierce battle, using different powers against each other. They exchanged blows, blasts, beams, bolts, and booms. They dodged, ducked, dipped, dived, and dodged again. They fought with all their might, but neither could gain the upper hand.

The battle lasted for hours, until they both ran out of energy and fell to the ground. They lay there exhausted and bruised, staring at each other with hatred and respect. They realized that they were evenly matched and that they had to end this somehow. They both reached for their Zee-Zee devices and pressed a button at the same time. They activated the ultimate power: self-destruction.

A countdown started on their devices: 10...9...8...7...6...5...4...3...2...1...BOOM! A huge explosion rocked the city, creating a mushroom cloud that could be seen for miles. The shockwave shattered windows and knocked down walls. The fireball incinerated everything in its path. The blast radius covered several blocks and left nothing but ashes and rubble.

Max and Dr. Doom were gone. Their Zee-Zee devices were destroyed along with them. The world was safe from their threat, but at a terrible cost. The people mourned their loss and wondered what had happened. They remembered Max as a hero who sacrificed himself to save them from Dr. Doom's tyranny. They erected a statue in his honor and named a park after him.

The end.

Working with a pretender

Working with someone pretender to like you

Is like wearing a mask that doesn't fit

You smile and nod and act polite

But inside you feel like a hypocrite

You wonder what they really think of you

And what they say behind your back

You try to ignore the subtle clues

But you can sense the trust they lack

You wish you could be honest and sincere

And tell them how you really feel

But you know that would only cause more fear

And make the situation more unreal

So you keep playing the game of lies

And hope that one day it will end

But until then you have to compromise

And work with someone who's not your friend

Pretender

She smiles and laughs as if nothing is wrong

She acts like she's happy and confident and strong

But inside she's broken and lonely and sad

She hides all her feelings and thoughts that are bad

She pretends that she doesn't care what they say

She pretends that she doesn't mind being alone every day

She pretends that she doesn't need anyone's love or support

She pretends that she doesn't have any dreams to abort

But sometimes she wonders how long she can keep up the lie

How long she can fake it before she breaks down and cries

How long she can ignore the pain that's eating her alive

How long she can pretend before she gives up and dies

A mother's love

He sits on the sidewalk, clutching a cardboard sign

His clothes are torn and dirty, his face is lined with grime

He looks at the passing strangers, hoping for a dime

But all he gets are glares and sneers, as if he's committed a crime

He remembers his mother, how she loved him so

How she taught him right from wrong, how she helped him grow

But he betrayed her trust and kindness, he chose a different path

He fell into addiction and violence, he faced his father's wrath

He wishes he could see her, to hug her one last time

To tell her that he's sorry, to beg for her sublime

But he knows it's too late, she's gone and he's alone

He cries out for his mother, but all he hears is a groan

Pretender

She smiles and nods and says she's fine

But deep inside she feels a twinge of pain

She acts as if she has it all together

But every night she cries herself to sleep

She pretends to love her job and friends

But secretly she longs for something more

She acts as if she's happy and fulfilled

But every day she feels a void inside

She pretends to be confident and strong

But really she's insecure and scared

She acts as if she's brave and bold

But every time she faces a challenge she doubts herself

She pretends to be someone she's not

But who is she really and what does she want?

She acts as if she knows herself well

But every moment she wonders who she is

A cat swinging on a branch

With grace and skill and nonchalance

He leaps and lands on his four paws

And then he licks them with his jaws

He does not care about the height

Or if he gives the birds a fright

He only wants to have some fun

And feel the breeze and see the sun

He swings again and then he stops

And looks around for any props

He sees a squirrel on a tree

And thinks that it would make a good company

He jumps and chases after it

But the squirrel is too fast and fit

He misses it by just a bit

And falls into a pile of leaves

He shakes himself and then he smiles

He does not mind his little trials

He swings and jumps and plays all day

He is a cat and that's his way

Poem

You are a mystery to me

A puzzle I can't solve

You have a mind that's full of dreams

And a heart that's full of love

You are a wonder to behold

A beauty I can't describe

You have a smile that lights up the room

And a voice that soothes my mind

You are a challenge to me

A goal I can't achieve

You have a spirit that's free and wild

And a soul that's deep and brave

You are a poem to me

A song I can't forget

You have a rhythm that moves me

And a melody that makes me wet

my poem

Ilove this song

Fireflies

Owl City

You would not believe your eyes if ten million fireflies

Lit up the world as I fell asleep

'Cause they'd fill the open air and leave teardrops everywhere

You'd think me rude, but I would just stand and stare

I'd like to make myself believe

That Planet Earth turns slowly

It's hard to say that I'd rather stay awake when I'm asleep

'Cause everything is never as it seems

'Cause I'd get a thousand hugs from ten thousand lightning bugs

As they tried to teach me how to dance

A foxtrot above my head, a sock hop beneath my bed

A disco ball is just hanging by a thread

I'd like to make myself believe

That Planet Earth turns slowly

It's hard to say that I'd rather stay awake when I'm asleep

'Cause everything is never as it seems (when I fall asleep)

Leave my door open just a crack (please, take me away from here)

'Cause I feel like such an insomniac (please, take me away from here)

Why do I tire of counting sheep (please, take me away from here)

When I'm far too tired to fall asleep?

To ten million fireflies

I'm weird 'cause I hate goodbyes

I got misty eyes as they said farewell (they said farewell)

But I'll know where several are

If my dreams get real bizarre

'Cause I saved a few and I keep them in a jar

I'd like to make myself believe

That Planet Earth turns slowly

It's hard to say that I'd rather stay awake when I'm asleep

'Cause everything is never as it seems (when I fall asleep)

I'd like to make myself believe

That Planet Earth turns slowly

It's hard to say that I'd rather stay awake when I'm asleep

'Cause everything is never as it seems (when I fall asleep)

I'd like to make myself believe

That Planet Earth turns slowly

It's hard to say that I'd rather stay awake when I'm asleep

Because my dreams are bursting at the seams

Songwriters: Adam R. Young. For non-commercial use only.

How to improve my mood

Get more sleep. Sleep quality is the top indicator for living well and feeling rested.
Exercise more. Even just an hour of exercise weekly can help prevent depression and boost your mood.
Volunteer in nature. Doing something meaningful and connecting with nature can reduce stress and improve mental health.
Spend time outdoors. Walking in a park or any green space can increase blood flow to your brain, lower stress hormones, and trigger the production of happy hormones like serotonin and endorphins.
Cultivate eudaimonic happiness. This is the type of happiness that comes from doing things that provide meaning and give a sense of striving to be your best self, such as volunteering, doing art, or spending time with loved ones.
Write down what (or who) you are grateful for. Keeping a gratitude journal or writing gratitude letters can increase your happiness and mood.
Listen to happy music. Music can influence your emotions and make you feel more positive, especially if you actively try to feel happier while listening to upbeat songs.
Laugh. Laughter can increase dopamine, oxygenate your body, and cool down your stress-response systems, producing an overall calm, happy feeling.
**Work on decluttering your home and

Dementia

Here is a short summary about dementia:

Dementia is a term used to describe a group of symptoms that affect memory, thinking and social abilities severely enough to interfere with daily life. It is not a specific disease, but several diseases can cause dementia². The most common cause of dementia is Alzheimer's disease, which involves plaques and tangles in the brain²³. Other causes of dementia include damage to blood vessels, infections, metabolic disorders, genetic disorders, and brain injuries¹.

Some of the signs and symptoms of dementia include memory loss, difficulty communicating, confusion, personality changes, depression, anxiety, and hallucinations². Dementia symptoms vary depending on the cause and the part of the brain that is affected². Some forms of dementia may be reversible if the underlying cause is treated², but most types of dementia are progressive and cannot be cured¹.

Dementia is diagnosed by a doctor based on medical history, physical examination, laboratory tests, and cognitive tests¹². Treatment for dementia depends on the cause and may include medication, therapy, and self-care¹. There is no known way to prevent dementia, but some lifestyle factors may reduce the risk of developing it².

My lastest study

About one quarter of the world’s population is infected with tuberculosis (TB) bacteria. Only a small proportion of those infected will become sick with TB. People with weakened immune systems have a much greater risk of falling ill from TB.1
A total of 1.6 million people died from TB in 2021 (including 187 000 people with HIV). Worldwide, TB is the 13th leading cause of death and the second leading infectious killer after COVID-19 (above HIV/AIDS).1
The number of people aged 60 years or older will rise from 900 million to 2 billion between 2015 and 2050 (moving from 12% to 22% of the total global population). Population ageing is happening more quickly than in the past.2
The most common health conditions in older age are noncommunicable diseases, such as heart disease, stroke, chronic lung disease, diabetes and dementia.2
Ageism may now be more pervasive than sexism or racism. Ageism is the stereotyping, prejudice and discrimination against people on the basis of their age. Ageism affects people’s confidence, job prospects, financial situation and quality of life.2

Did you find any of these

My happy corner

I have find out that elderly with demantia , doesn't like it when you act like you are more clever than then
them , i ask them normally if they need something, like if they need something to drink or something to eat. They will say 'I just had something to drink,i will then ask what about somethig to eat?"than they will
swear at me, i will behave like i didn't hear them . Then later they ask for food or water,

Itry my best to stay calm otherwise i will go cookoo . leave them a bit alone is also good then will come
looking for you. 😀 Ienjoy looking after elderlies ,fun looking after them not because i get pay no
just in general...

happy carer

My happy corner

I dont know if i should laugh about this or cry

A friend of mine went out to a pub with some friends for a drink , well they had a good time there

What happened is that they got so drunk , around 11pm he gave me ring to say that his on his way home
The pub is only 5mins away from my house
Apparently he walk up till where i stay then decided to take a taxi to take him home ,where his home was i dont know , he gave the taxi driver my address , what i dont understand is that the driver saw that the address is right there where he was , let the poor man get in the car drove with him for long i dont know bring him back where he picked him up and let him pay R100 for the drive

The next morning he a little bit of what happened to him
I told him that he came home after midnight, he refused to believe me
Know i have answer questions what happen with the money he had and where is his eye glasses?

My happy corner

Start you morning pleasant ,happy , say your morning prayer
Thank GOD for today
Get up at 5am stretch your body , few movements lol
Have a cup of coffee
Look through the window or go outside inhale the fresh air with your cup of coffee

Think only of positive stuff no worries or stressful stuff
Have your shower dress up very slow no rush just enjoy yourself

When you step out that door say 'Thank God let my day start smoothly'

My happy corner

My happy corner

Mother's day so sad if your loved ones are so far away , how can one celebrate it
alone in your room or apartment with a bottle of wine , if you have one ,lol
What did i do on mother's day ? Thank GOD my children send me a messege early this morning
to wish me a Happy Mother's day that brought a smile on my face

My heart go out for those children without a mother or grandma,just to celebrate this beautiful day with them

Well a Happy Mother's day to the worlds mothers

Peasce

MY LONELY CORNER

Who gives a dame wether i am okay or not
people are busy with their own shit also.
Get up in the morning say a PRAYER
Take a bath skeep breakfast because there,s hardly bread, milk or eggs in the fridge
Well what can i do go to work on a empty stomach,
The reason why i dont have food its because i have to pay accounts with the small pay check i get

And wonder why is she not buying clothes for herself well the smile i show is fake
Not letting any one know my pain. I cry only in my sleep...

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